Lotan, on May 12 2009, 06:49 AM, said:
Either way, is there a law to behave manly? I behave how I want.
Behaving how you want = Pretty damn manly!
msleeper, on May 13 2009, 04:56 AM, said:
What the fuck is wrong with this thread. :|
A lot.
Lotan, on May 14 2009, 08:43 PM, said:
Besides, with you she could be completely different than she is in this stupid [emo, goth, hip-hop, duke fans] crowd.
Awesome how you listed the "duke fans" crowd thing. It's an idea to compare the emo subculture to the duke fans "subculture" but the difference is that on these Duke fora we have many different people who like different music, have a different clothing style, etc.. There is no standard image of "the Duke fan".
Captain Awesome, on May 14 2009, 11:02 PM, said:
Emo people suck because they have no ideas of their own.
You're right. Let's read more Maddox and blindly follow his philosophy instead!
Captain Awesome, on May 16 2009, 09:23 PM, said:
How are you supposed to spend time with each other if you have no common hobbies? My point is, if you share common hobbies, then you probably both already have good chemistry.
This is not necessarily true. It's more about personality than anything. Sure having hobbies in common can be a contributing factor but if the girl you're dating is a complete moron or a bitch it doesn't matter if they have the same hobbies.
It's all about being able to adapt yourselves to another person. If you are completely incapable of doing that then good luck on finding someone because it probably won't happen, unless you clone yourself. You'll probably never find a girl who has the exact same personality and hobbies as you (or any man).
You might say that having similar hobbies is important if you want to have fun. I'm not sure of this. We sometimes go to a movie theatre to watch a movie. Or go to a restaurant. Yet, is going to a movie theatre or eating food a hobby? If the people in question love eachother I do hope they don't care if they are taken on a date that might not be something they would usually do. As long as the activities that you do together are not considered annoying by any of the two parties, it should work out quite well.