Micky C, on 22 January 2013 - 03:16 PM, said:
Well I think there are 2 reasons. The first one is that the pace of the movies, especially the first one, is incredibly slow. I mean they spend all this time showing you the Enterprise from different angles, and I'm not sure whether or not it was an impressive sight back in the day, but with modern CGI spending 5+ minutes on a relatively dull ship exterior is simply a drag.
The second reason is that story writing has "improved" a lot since then. I mean in those movies there isn't a huge amount of stuff going on. Another point here is that a lot of the situations in the movies have been done again at a later date in shows/movies that I've watched, and done a bit better for various reasons. So when you see these equivalents then go to the original, it's just not anything "new" or special. It's the same as watching old comedy shows for the first time, they just don't have anything you haven't seen before, even if in reality they did everything first.
Back in 79 TMP was sorta visually impressive, sorta. It was for Trek fans who were used to the 60s TV show, really seeing the scale and such, and to this day I still love the effects, but yes. TMP is notoriously slow. It's often been called "Star Trek :The Slow Motion Picture" or "Star Trek :The No Motion Picture"
But Wrath of Khan? While I agree that in terms of plotting "not a lot" is going on, it has many layers and themes. Revenge, age, sacrifice, friendship. It's classical story telling at it's finest, and frankly as far as writing is concerned nothing has changed since 1982. Editing? Yeah, nowadays the MTV hyper-cutting has taken over from the times of using slow pace to build tension. Wrath of Khan is a very low budgeted film that does a lot with what it had. It had a fraction of the budget TMP had.
However, the reason I referenced TREK 2 was that one specific line. It has been my experience there are some situations in relationships that you cannot come out of "winning" however you want to "technically" define that. You'll be wrong, no matter what you say, simply because you both feel differently. So you have to deal with those situations as patiently and as best as you can. Don't be a push over, either. Just.... Just be you. If it's going to work, you guys will make it work. It's about give and take, and trying. If you're always giving, then that blows. If she's always giving, then that blows too. There's gotta be, and there should be, compromise on both sides based on whatever situations are. If you guys are happy, then there's no problem. I guess, "cross that bridge when you come to it." Nobody can honestly predict what will cause problems and what won't between certain people.