Katrix Kytarix, on 09 August 2016 - 09:10 AM, said:
Sorry, what's this JW cult? How can you talk to strangers without any problems? Tell me your secrets
JW stands for Jehovah's Witnesses. Their prime source of income is to publish and sell literature. One can donate cash also. Elder(s) (leaders of a congregation) usually help with financing the local Kingdom Hall (church) as well. Once you are baptized, you are expected to witness a minimum amount of hours. And you do that witnessing by selling the latest Watchtower and Awake, anyway you wish. To help you selling (witnessing), you will be taught, just like a sales person, how to make friends, overcome objections and then close the deal. In addition, books are being sold to the all the members, to aid in further understanding the Word of God, as interpreted by the anointed one's (the cardinals of the JW).
The point here is: One's you freed yourself from this cult (religion or whatever you want to call it) you are very much a well trained negotiator, salesman, speaker etc.
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Katrix Kytarix, on 09 August 2016 - 09:10 AM, said:
For me the reverse happened, I used to be more open, more extroverted, less shy and now I almost have a heart attack talking to strangers, and I love to admire nature, music and such... All alone, mostly
And yes, humans are way more complex than personality tests.
Maybe it's just a phase to find a new direction? Alone, can be good also, well, for a while.
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Sure, humans are complex, and trying to organize them into pigeon holes is tough. There is also a difference between how one sees oneself, and how one is seen. I think they (psychologist) should make tests for wife/husband or girl/boyfriend. Let your partner answer questions about you.